She and I exchanged glances and my message to her was that it would be okay for this man to give her a massage. But, it was a young man, and very virile-looking, When my wife expressed surprise that he was a man, he explained that the women were with other customers, and offered to leave and wait until one of them was available. She called to the desk and asked to have a masseuse sent up, expecting it to be a woman.
My ex-wife and I checked in to a hotel and we saw on the brochure that massage was offered.